Why did I love this book?
Ayelet Tsabari’s stunning memoir is all about departure, wandering, displacement, identity, and belonging. As a Mizrahi, or non-European Jew, and a minority in Israeli society and culture, she establishes herself as a powerful voice for emigrants and minorities and speaks truth to power.
In the West, Ashkenazi Jewish culture dominates, and most people are ignorant of, and/or quite indifferent to, the myriad Jewish communities of the world and their complex and rich cultures. Her experiences in the Israeli army, her travels, her difficult relationships, her escape from trauma and pain as she enters into different worlds, and how she makes peace with herself. She focuses on those like herself on the margins of Israeli society and exposes the misogyny and discrimination she and other immigrants like herself experience on a daily basis.
Many of the aspects she writes about resonate deeply with me as an Indian immigrant in the US, as an outsider, and as someone who has built my writing life from scratch. The stories of the Bene Israel from India who migrated to Israel are similar, as they were discriminated against horribly. Later, they led protests and strikes, and things seemed to improve. Communities like the Ethiopian Jews are still struggling to gain equality and better treatment.
Tsabari’s personal trauma and her travels to escape and ultimately find herself, her unflinching gaze, and examination of what’s not talked about is brilliant and brave.
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An intimate memoir in essays by an award-winning Israeli writer who travels the world, from New York to India, searching for love, belonging, and an escape from grief following the death of her father when she was a young girl
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This searching collection opens with the death of Ayelet Tsabari’s father when she was just nine years old. His passing left her feeling rootless, devastated, and driven to question her complex identity as an Israeli of Yemeni descent in a country that suppressed and devalued her ancestors’ traditions.…